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Gentle, trusted support for you and your baby
I support mothers and families through pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period with emotional care, practical guidance and a calm, reassuring presence.
About me
From my early twenties, I knew I wanted to work in a caring profession. I have always been deeply moved by pregnancy and the journey women experience as they grow, birth and nurture a new life. Supporting families during this meaningful and transformative time has always felt like a natural calling to me.
I am married to Tony, and we have a wonderful nine year old daughter who brings so much joy into our lives. I was born in Brazil and lived there until I was 22, before moving to the UK, a place I now call home. Over the years, I have adopted some very British habits, including drinking plenty of tea and, occasionally, complaining about the weather. Sadly, I cannot teach you samba, as I am usually the most uncoordinated person in any dance class.
The word doula comes from Ancient Greek and means a woman who serves. This meaning reflects the heart of my work. To serve, for me, is to offer calm presence, compassion and reassurance, meeting families where they are, without judgement.
It is a true privilege to support women and families through pregnancy, birth and early parenthood. As a doula, I am here to walk alongside you, offering emotional support, practical guidance and a steady, reassuring presence during one of the most profound experiences of your life.
Experience and professional background
I bring over ten years of professional experience supporting families through pregnancy, birth and early parenthood in the UK. My work is grounded in a strong healthcare background, combining evidence based knowledge with compassionate, relationship focused doula care.
As a qualified Nurse, Health Visitor and trained Doula, I have worked closely with families across a wide range of circumstances, offering guidance, reassurance and practical support within the UK community setting. This experience has given me a deep understanding of maternal wellbeing, infant development, infant feeding and the importance of early relationships.
Throughout my career, I have supported hundreds of families during pregnancy, birth and the early months of parenthood. I work in a calm, respectful and non judgemental way, supporting informed decision making while recognising the individuality of every family.
My professional background allows me to work alongside medical care rather than replace it, offering continuity, emotional support and reassurance during a deeply significant time.
Supporting families in the UK
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Kind words from families I’ve supported
Real experiences from mothers and families who felt supported, listened to and cared for.
Simoni’s presence made a real difference during a very emotional time. Her calm, gentle support helped me feel more confident and less alone in the early days with my baby.
Sarah M.
Postnatal support
Having Simoni’s support felt reassuring and grounding. She listened carefully, respected my choices and was always there when I needed guidance or reassurance.
Emily R.
Birth and postnatal support
As a mother living far from my family, I felt deeply supported by Simoni. Her understanding, kindness and experience made the journey into motherhood much lighter.
Ana P.
Postnatal and infant feeding support
Services
A gentle overview of the care and support I offer throughout pregnancy, birth and early parenthood.
Antenatal Support
Personalised support during pregnancy, offering space to explore expectations, understand birth, and prepare with confidence and calm.
Birth Preparation
Evidence-based guidance to help you understand the physiology of labour, explore comfort measures, and feel informed about your choices.
Ongoing Reassurance
Continued emotional reassurance and guidance as you navigate pregnancy and early parenthood.
Birth Reflection and Debrief
A safe space to reflect on and process your birth experience after your baby is born.
Partner Support
Guidance and reassurance to help your partner feel informed, confident and involved throughout the journey.
Postnatal Support
Gentle support during the early weeks after birth, helping you rest, recover and adjust to life with your baby.
Infant Feeding Support
Support with breastfeeding and infant feeding, offered with sensitivity, respect and evidence-based guidance.
Newborn Care Guidance
Practical guidance to help you feel more confident in caring for your newborn in the early days.
Support packages
Flexible options designed to offer continuity, care and reassurance, according to your needs.
Standard Doula Package
Holistic, continuous care to support you through pregnancy, birth, and early postpartum.
This package offers personalised, evidence-based support to help you feel informed, supported, and confident as you prepare for birth and transition into parenthood.
- Two private antenatal sessions (approximately 90 minutes each)
- Continuous on-call and birth support at home or in hospital
- One postnatal visit (1–2 hours)
- Emotional, physical, and informational support
- Support for your birth partner
- Referrals to trusted professionals if needed
Ideal for families seeking relationship-based care, emotional reassurance, and calm, continuous support throughout pregnancy and birth.
Superior Birth Support Doula Package
Comprehensive, continuous care with extended postnatal support.
This premium package is designed for families who would like deeper connection, ongoing reassurance, and continued support beyond birth.
- Includes everything in the Standard Doula Package, plus:
- Three months of postnatal WhatsApp support (within agreed hours)
- Extended emotional reassurance and continuity of care after birth
- A gifted copy of The Secrets of Birth by Kicki Hansard
Ideal for families seeking deeper continuity, extended postnatal support, and ongoing reassurance during early parenthood.
Personalised Doula Support
Flexible, tailored support shaped around your family, your needs, and your journey.
This option is designed for families who feel a standard package may not fully reflect the kind of support they are looking for.
- Antenatal, birth, and postnatal support tailored to your needs
- Flexible structure and availability
- Emotional and practical support adapted over time
Ideal for families who would like a bespoke approach and personalised level of care.
Thoughts on motherhood and care
Reflections, gentle guidance and shared experiences around pregnancy, early motherhood and the importance of feeling supported during this time.
Doula Simoni Cavaliere
Get in touch
You don’t need to have everything figured out. We can start with a gentle conversation and see what kind of support may feel right for you.
FAQs
Frequently asked questions
What is a doula
A doula is a trained professional who offers continuous emotional, physical and informational support during pregnancy, birth and the early postnatal period. A doula does not replace medical care, but works alongside it to help families feel supported, informed and confident.
Do you replace my midwife or doctor
No. I work alongside your midwife and medical team. My role is to provide continuity of care, emotional support and evidence based information, while all clinical care remains with your healthcare providers.
Where do you offer birth support
I offer birth support at home or in hospital, depending on your plans and preferences. Support is always tailored to your individual circumstances.
Do you support partners as well
Yes. Supporting partners is an important part of my role. I help partners feel informed, confident and involved throughout pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period.
What kind of postnatal support do you offer
Postnatal support can include emotional reassurance, birth reflection, guidance with newborn care and infant feeding support within scope, as well as practical suggestions to support recovery and adjustment after birth.
Do you support breastfeeding and infant feeding
Yes. I offer evidence based support with breastfeeding and infant feeding, always respecting that every family and feeding journey is unique.
When is the best time to contact a doula
You can get in touch at any stage of pregnancy. Many families choose to connect early to build a relationship, but I am happy to hear from you whenever it feels right.
